What is courage? Merriam-Webster defines it as “the ability to do something that you know is difficult or dangerous.” The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language describes courage as “The state or quality of mind or spirit that enables one to face danger, fear, or vicissitudes with self-possession, confidence, and resolution; bravery.” Most of us rarely face a truly dangerous physical situation, but we certainly face things that are difficult and fearful. Dealing with family illnesses, divisions, and differing political views can be stressful and require courage. Parenting, providing guidance, restraint, and growth while being told by your child that you are a terrible, awful person, requires courage. Understanding and seeking the truth of conflicts and situations takes courage. Speaking out and making your voice heard in difficult times takes courage. Decisions to vote, or who to vote for, can be difficult and fearful, and as we enter the season of fear, it will take courage to see it through.
We can be inspired by other people’s courage. Folks such as Greta Thunberg and Jack Smith and Barack Obama speak to me and inspire. On a practical level, how do we get “courage”? We take small steps, do one or two things that make you feel a bit uncomfortable, step out of your comfort zone. By stepping out of that comfort zone in a safe place, you become confident in the ability to trust your courage. In our UU Asheville community, joining a group, or the choir, or assisting with Faith Formation can be a safe way to push your comfort zone and lean into courage. In your neighborhood, strike up a conversation with a neighbor on the next block. Participate in public protests and write your representatives with your concerns. Small steps, push the boundaries of comfort, and find your courage.
As the Wizard of Oz said to the Lion, “True courage is facing danger when you are afraid, and that kind of courage you have in plenty.” (The Wizard’s famous wisdom regarding the Cowardly Lion’s hidden bravery). The Lion also said, “Not nobody! Not no how!” We must have hope that reason and vision will overcome fear and lead us forward. And hope takes courage too. So, courageously, remain calm and carry on and get out and vote!
– Walter “Wink” Zachritz
Wink is a member of the UU AVL Board of Trustees.